How to Network as a Fresh Graduate

(Especially When Nobody Takes You Seriously)

Stepping out of college and into the professional world can feel overwhelming. You’re excited to start your career, but there’s one skill everyone keeps telling you about—networking.

And here’s the truth: as a fresh graduate, it often feels like nobody takes you seriously. You don’t have years of experience, a big title, or a long list of achievements to lean on. But let me assure you—you have more to offer than you think.

As a career and life coach, I’ve worked with many young professionals who turned their early networking efforts into powerful career accelerators. Let me share how you can do the same.

1. Shift Your Mindset: From “What I Need” to “What I Can Give”

Most graduates approach networking with fear: “Why would they want to talk to me?”

Here’s the secret: networking isn’t about begging for opportunities. It’s about building relationships.

Even if you’re just starting out, you can still bring value:

• Fresh perspectives and ideas.

• Curiosity and willingness to learn.

• Support through research, projects, or sharing resources.

Pro tip: Instead of asking “Can you give me a job?”, ask “I’d love to hear how you built your career and what advice you’d give someone starting out.” People love to share their stories.

2. Start Small and Local

You don’t need to chase CEOs on LinkedIn right away. Begin with people already within reach:

• Alumni from your college.

• Professors and lecturers.

• Family, friends, and their extended networks.

• Community events, workshops, or industry meetups.

These are the people most likely to give you time and introductions.

Pro tip: Reach out with gratitude first. A simple “I admire what you’ve done in [field] and would love to learn from your journey” works wonders.

3. Leverage LinkedIn Like a Pro

LinkedIn isn’t just for job hunting—it’s for storytelling and connection.

• Build a strong profile. Highlight your skills, projects, and aspirations, not just your degree.

• Engage consistently. Comment on posts, share insights from articles, and celebrate others’ achievements.

• Send personalized invites. Avoid the default “I’d like to connect.” Instead, write: “I’m a recent graduate interested in [field], and I’d love to learn from your experience.”

Pro tip: One meaningful conversation a week is better than sending 50 random requests.

4. Ask for Conversations, Not Jobs

Networking is about planting seeds, not harvesting immediately.

When you connect with someone new, ask for:

• A 15-minute coffee chat or video call.

• Advice on entering the industry.

• Insight into trends, challenges, and skills to focus on.

This takes pressure off both sides—and often leads to opportunities later.

5. Follow Up and Stay in Touch

Networking isn’t a one-time transaction. It’s about building relationships over time.

• Send a thank-you message after conversations.

• Share an article or update that might interest them.

• Check in occasionally without always asking for something.

Pro tip: Treat your network like a garden—water it with care and patience, and it will grow.

6. Build Your Own Credibility

If nobody is taking you seriously yet, create your own platform.

• Write about your learning journey on LinkedIn.

• Share projects, case studies, or personal reflections.

• Attend workshops and post key takeaways.

When you show up consistently, people begin to notice—and eventually, they’ll come to you.

Final Thought

Networking as a fresh graduate can feel intimidating, but remember this: people aren’t connecting with your title—they’re connecting with you. Your curiosity, enthusiasm, and willingness to learn are your biggest assets.

Every professional you admire once started where you are. What set them apart wasn’t their résumé—it was their ability to build meaningful relationships.

So take that first step. Start a conversation. Plant the seed. You’ll be surprised how far it can grow.

👉 If you’re a fresh graduate struggling with networking, share your biggest challenge in the comments—I’ll be happy to guide you.